20 Unique & Romantic Things To Do In NYC For A Date Night

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New York City is known for being a city of ambition and hustle, but it can also be a deeply romantic city.

There are so many romantic things to do in NYC for a date night with your loved one, it can be hard narrowing down your options.

Of course, you can always do something traditional like a meal and a Broadway experience, as there are always new restaurants to try and new plays to see. But we’re not here for the obvious suggestions, right?

There are so many romantic ways to explore NYC, from taking a romantic stroll through a park while the flowers are in bloom, to enjoying outdoor concerts, to dinner with spectacular views of Manhattan’s city lights glowing back at you.

If you want a special way to engage in romance in NYC, here’s a few magical ways to spend quality time with your loved one in the city that never sleeps.

1. Watch a magic show at Steve Cohen’s Chamber Magic

Without a doubt, one of the most unforgettable date nights in New York City is an evening with the Millionaire’s Magician, otherwise known as Steven Cohen.

For over 25 years, Steve Cohen has performed his magic shows, called Chamber Magic, in a private suite at the Waldorf-Astoria and requires cocktail attire. The show is still going on, and has now moved to the Lotte New York Palace Hotel.

There are four shows a week, so if you plan for a few days in NYC, you’ll likely be in the city when a performance is on.

The absolute star of the show is the magic itself: you’ll leave in awe, and spend the rest of the evening wondering if magic is real (and if it’s not, how exactly did he pull it off?).

Pop into the bar after the show to discuss the tricks over a martini.

2. Enjoy the live music at Dizzy’s Jazz Club

Dizzy’s Jazz Club in the Lincoln Center features world-class jazz musicians with an epic view overlooking Central Park. If you love music, then enjoy a show here.

There’s also a late-night session that features up-and-coming artists for a cheaper cover price (and sometimes a dance floor!) and the cocktails taste just as good.

What could be more romantic than dancing with your loved one to a live band in an intimate jazz bar setting? It’s definitely hard to beat.

3. Enjoy a sunset sail to the Statue of Liberty

A classic romantic thing to do in New York City is take a sunset sail to the Statue of Liberty, where you can witness incredible views of the Manhattan skyscrapers and the sunset from the Statue of Liberty.

Oh and did I mentioned the cruise comes with cocktails or champagne? Now it’s one of the most romantic dates in the city.

If you take one of the sunset cruises, you can dress up and take some romantic selfies together.

If you’re on a budget, you can take the free staten island ferry over to Staten Island, which sails past the Statue of Liberty – romance doesn’t always have to cost a lot!

Plus, Staten Island has a lot of great places to hang out on a date, such as visiting Staten Island Zoo, rolling around at RollerJam USA’s rollerskating rink, or strolling through the New York Chinese Scholar’s Garden.

4. Go on an Un-Highlights tour of The Met with Museum Hack

Museums can sometimes seem stale, but Museum Hack is a fun twist on the typical boring guided tour.

Museum Hack takes you through the Metropolitan Museum of Art or the Natural History Museum with the strangest, wildest and sexiest stories hidden in the exhibits, also known as the “Un-Highlights” tour.

I especially like the Museum Hack VIP tour of the Met: you’ll get to have the entire museum to yourself right before closing time. You can walk hand in hand and have some intimate conversations. It’s lovely.

The group tour lasts for about two-hours and is advertised as a “not your grandma’s museum tour” so you can be sure it’s going to be intriguing.

5. Take your date to the Comedy Cellar

My boyfriend is a comedy nerd, and he introduced me to Comedy Cellar, one of the world’s leading comedy bars. You never know who exactly will perform, but it’s a favorite haunt for famous comedians to test out new material.

The Comedy Cellar has previously seen stars like Louis CK, Chris Rock and Amy Schumer – and the lead-up comedians are always just as solid.

Have a drink or romantic dinner at Olive Tree Cafe upstairs and keep your eyes open: comedians often hang out in the back in between their sets.

There are usually shows happening every night of the week, so be sure to check the events calendar to see what’s on.

6. Dinner and a movie at Nitehawk Cinema

Dinner and a movie is a standard date night around the world, but Nitehawk Cinema does it best.

With quirky classic cinema trailers, whiskey root beer floats and artisan mozzarella sticks served during the show and the best new indie releases, it’s the perfect setting for film buffs looking for somewhere to eat in NYC with their date.

You’ll see movies here that you won’t see anywhere else.

7. Go ice skating in Central Park (seasonal)

Central Park is probably the most romantic place in NYC as it’s the only place you can go strolling through nature and enjoy some peace and quiet (kind of).

Plus you can take an iconic carriage ride through the park on a fairytale-like carriage pulled by a horse.

But if you’re visiting the city in the winter, why not make it more special and check out the Wollman Rink and go ice skating?

There is nothing more romantic and enjoyable than gliding around on the ice whilst trying not to fall over.

And even if you do, it creates lasting memories and a great story to tell the grandkids!

8. Have a picnic in Brooklyn Botanic Garden

If you’re looking for somewhere where you and your loved one can enjoy some quiet time alone, then head over the Brooklyn Bridge and deep into the Brooklyn borough to find the Brooklyn Botanic Garden.

This huge urban space is a place where visitors can enjoy the delights of nature and surround themselves with plants from around the world.

It’s also adjacent to Prospect Park, which would make for a great picnic spot if the gardens are too busy.

But no doubt you will find a quiet spot in this 52-acre garden.

And if you are visiting in the winter, you can get free entrance (well, donations are nice) between Tuesday and Friday in December – February.

9. Watch the ballet at Lincoln Center

While many people head to NYC to watch a show on Broadway, why not mix it up a bit with a performance by the New York City Ballet?

The performances always change, from Swan Lake to Sleeping Beauty to Phantom of the Opera to Balanchine.

Be sure to check out the what’s on calendar to see what’s happening.

10. Take on the Treetop Adventure at Bronx Zoo

Zoos are a fun place to visit for a date, but if you want to do some more adventurous things to do on a date, then why not try the Treetop Adventure at Bronx Zoo?

You and your partner will climb up to 50 meters above the ground, swing through trees, tackle obstacle courses and whizz down zip lines in this amazing canopy top obstacle course.

It’s one of those activities that will create lasting memories, if you’re both brave enough!

11. Enjoy The Roman Baths at AIRE Ancient Baths

Want to treat your loved one to a bit of pampering? NYC can be chaotic, so why not unwind and relax on a spa day?

AIRE Ancient Baths are located all over the world, but the NYC spa is located right in the heart of the bustling Upper East Side.

Though once you’re inside, you won’t feel like it. It’s designed to be a relaxing oasis that will balance the mind, body and soul.

The building itself is a restored 1883 textile factory but has been turned into a Roman bath with water at different temperatures – just like they used to bath during Roman times.

If you want to step it up a notch, check out the massage options, too!

12. Take a Helicopter Tour of NYC

This activity is a once in a lifetime experience, and perfect for those who are honeymooning to NYC or looking for an ultra special date idea.

As you zip across the skies above New York, you have a birdseye view of the city below.

See iconic monuments such as the Empire State Building, Statue of Liberty and Central Park below. See the boats cruising down the Hudson River and see the bustling yellow taxis honking below you.

Opt for a sunset flight for a truly magical setting.

13. Drink Hot Chocolate on Valentine’s Day at Loreley Beer Garden

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If you happen to be in NYC in February and looking for a date idea for Valentine’s Day, then why not take your loved one to a cafe that does Valentine’s Day right?

The Loreley Beer Garden always goes all out on V-Day, with its “winter wonderland” pop-up cafe in its outdoor heated garden.

Serving heart-shaped pretzels and bread, combined with the romantic décor and thousands of heart-shaped rose petals, it’s the perfect place to enjoy a Hot Chocolate before taking selfies with the romantic backdrop.

14. See views from the top of the Empire State Building

This is an iconic date activity in NYC that we couldn’t skip off the list.

Not only is the Empire State Building one of the most iconic landmarks in NYC, but its viewing deck is a well-known hot spot for romantic proposals and viewpoints for couple’s selfies.

Perhaps you’re not ready to pop the question and don’t want to feel pressured into it by all the other people doing it, so another great viewing deck you should check out is Top of the Rock.

Another romantic spot for views is from the One World Observatory observation deck.

15. Stargaze at the Hayden Planetarium

Can you think of a more romantic date night activity than stargazing? Well sadly due to the bright lights of NYC, you won’t see much in the night sky.

No matter, because you can check out the stars, constellations and learn about our planets all in one at the Hayden Planetarium.

It’s located in the Rose Center for Earth and Space at the American Museum of Natural History and has a custom-made projector that displays hyperrealistic scenes of the planets, stars, nebulae, and galaxies.

It’s one of the most interesting and humbling date ideas you can have for NYC.

16. Play at the amusements at Luna Park

If you’re looking for an unforgettable date with a splash of nostalgia and seaside charm, head over to Coney Island to visit Luna Park, an iconic amusement park in NYC.

Start by strolling the lively boardwalk, sharing a bucket of crispy fries or cotton candy while the Atlantic breeze sets the mood.

Then go into the park and ride the legendary Cyclone roller coaster or opt for a gentler spin on the Wonder Wheel.

As the sun dips low, the park comes alive with neon lights and carnival sounds, and you can win your date a stuffed souvenir from one of the games or challenge your date to a game of skee-ball.

Get a hot dog and go for a moonlit walk on the beach after — simple, classic, not too expensive, and just the right amount of magic.

17. Check out Times Square

If you want an iconic photo of NYC with your loved one to remember your trip by, then you’ll need to head over to Times Square and grab a selfie.

No doubt you are already planning on visiting this unmissable place in NYC, but don’t just rush in and out for a photo.

You’ll find there are plenty of art installations to use as a backdrop. Plus, it’s right next to the theatres on Broadway so you can catch an award-winning musicals while you’re there.

18. Ride Jane’s Carousel in Brooklyn Bridge Park 

Brooklyn Bridge Park is a nice relaxed and scenic date destination. It has postcard-perfect views and a more chilled vibe compared to Manhattan.

Start your date with a casual coffee from a trendy cafe in DUMBO, then meander along the waterfront Brooklyn Heights Promenade and enjoy the views overlooking Lower Manhattan and feeling the salty breeze off the East River.

Then take a ride on Jane’s Carousel, a restored vintage carousel, for a whimsical throwback to your childhoods.

If you want to, you could also roll out a picnic on the lawns of Pier 1 and watch the Brooklyn Bridge lights flicker to life at sunset.

19. Watch a baseball game at Yankee Stadium

Who said a romantic day out can’t involve sports? A date at Yankee Stadium hits a home run for me!

Whether you’re die-hard baseball fans or just looking for somewhere to soak up the atmosphere, there’s nothing like cheering side by side under the bright Bronx lights at a baseball game.

Get yourself a classic ballpark hot dog and an icy beer, and between innings, take a walk along the concourse for sweeping views of the field and skyline glimpses beyond the stands. Sounds perfect to me!

20. Stroll around the New York Botanical Garden

If you want to escape the city’s chaos, head to the New York Botanical Garden in the Bronx, which has 250 acres of lush, curated manicured gardens to explore.

It’s the perfect place to walk hand-in-hand and check out the seasonal exhibits such as the tropical warmth of the Conservatory in winter or the Rose Garden in summer.

Roll out a picnic under the trees or visit the on-site café with garden views.

Romantic places to drink in NYC

If you just want a romantic setting for a cocktail and a calm ambiance, here are some places to drink on a date in New York City that we love…

Bemelmans Bar

Bemelmans Bar at the Carlyle Hotel is old-fashioned, upper-crust New York City rooftop bar at its finest.

It’s located in Midtown Manhattan near to Bryant Park, making it super central and close to other top attractions in the city.

It serves proper classic cocktails, live piano music, and sumptuous leather banquettes.

The walls are covered in playful murals by Ludwig Bemelman, author and illustrator of the Madeleine series.

The Campbell

The Campbell is tucked away above Grand Central Terminal (an architectural gem worth visiting, whether or not you’re coming in on the train).

It used to be a private office in Grand Central Station and salon of a business tycoon in the 1920s, but has been lovingly restored to its original Prohibition-era splendor into the city’s favorite speakeasy.

Located across the East River in Williamsburg, it offers a full view of the Manhattan skyline.

During the summer, there’s a large outdoor rooftop patio perfect for soaking up the sunshine while sipping. It was also a filming location for Gossip Girl. Read our guide to Gossip Girl film locations in NYC – many of which are in the Upper East Side of NYC.

Romantic places to eat in NYC

In all of New York City, we love the food in West Village the most! It is full of bustling bistros with a simple design and good food.

For couples who prefer something more casual over fine dining, I recommend Aria Wine Bar or Rosemary’s Italian Restaurant.

Burger Joint is hidden down a dark hallway in Le Parker-Meridien: it’s a dive bar vibe with awesome burgers and cheap beer, which is surprisingly delightful in the middle of Midtown.

While I personally think a $1 slice on the street is wonderfully New York after fancy cocktails, Peasant is an Italian restaurant that’s a little more romantic – complete with candlelight and a great wine list.

And if you want a solid steak dinner, go to St Anselm in Brooklyn. The hangar steak is one of the most delicious deals in town, and there’s even red wine on tap.

Romantic places to stay in NYC

There’s no shortage of romantic hotels in New York City, especially if you want to splurge.

To make your trip really special, consider staying at The Standard High Line, a super hip and centrally located with great views of uptown and downtown, and has plenty of bars worth visiting even if you’re not staying there.

Or, Park Central Hotel has reasonable rates and is close to Central Park and the Broadway shows.

See more hotel options on the map below:

Final thoughts

So there you have it, those are the most romantic attractions in NYC. As you can see, there are endless things to do in NYC for couples any time of the day.

Whether you’re a new couple in love or you’ve been married for years, you won’t ever run out of special things to do as a couple, and we hope this guide has helped you plan a romantic trip to NYC and given you some date-night inspiration.

There are so many great places in New York City that offer a cozy setting for your loved one, too many to include on this list, so if you have any more suggestions, let us know in the comments!

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