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There are lots of decisions to make when it comes to travel, but one of the biggest is solo travel vs group travel; which is better?
The easy part is choosing your destination, duration, and budget because those things are less costraint, but if you’re not sure whether it’s a better idea to travel alone or with a group, then this is where this guide comes in.
This decision is particularly tough to make, especially for a first time traveler.
And, though every man and his dog will have their opinion, I’ll suggest upfront that there’s absolutely no right and wrong answer here.
People are different, so personal preferences and experiences of either choice will vary accordingly.
It’s about what’s going to be right for you.
However, a decision made in the full knowledge of its potential implications is always preferable.
So, for an aspiring traveller as yet undecided about travelling solo or in a group, it might be helpful to have an idea of the pros and cons to expect from both!
So, let’s look at both in turn.
- Solo Travel vs. Group Travel: The Benefits of Solo Travel
- 1. You have complete freedom and independence
- 2. There are time benefits
- 3. It’s an opportunity to develop as a person
- 4. You have your own space
- 5. You get to choose your accommodation
- 6. You don’t have to follow an itinerary
- 7. You may dislike someone in the group
- 8. You have more privacy and opportunities to be alone
- 9. No complicated decision making
- 10. Avoid arguements
- Solo Travel vs Group Travel: The Benefits of Group Travel
- 1. Solo travel can be lonely
- 2. It’s Less Expensive
- 3. You’ have to cook for one
- 4. You don’t have to selfies
- 5. You get to see destinations you can’t see on your own
- 6. There’s safety in numbers
- 7. You might make new friends for LIFE
- 8. You get local tips
- 9. You might get group discounts
- 10. Last minute deals
- 11. Eases you into solo travel
- 12. Avoid paying single supplements
- Group Tour Companies
- Final Thoughts on Solo Travel vs Group Travel
- Other helpful posts on solo travel
Solo Travel vs. Group Travel: The Benefits of Solo Travel
Let’s start with the pros of solo travel. Below are some of the main reasons why you may decide to travel by yourself as opposed to a tour.
1. You have complete freedom and independence
A huge advantage of being alone is that you’re in total control of absolutely everything.
Now, with no-one telling you what to do or how to do it, this might feel a bit daunting at first. However, you’ll come to appreciate the feeling of liberation that goes with it.
Want to climb that mountain on the horizon? Go ahead and climb that mountain.
Want to eat that delicious looking street food from the vendor over there? Go eat that darn street food.
Want to stay in the hotel or hostel all day and do nothing at all? Go ahead and stay in the hostel.
You get the picture.
Simply, there’s no-one else dictating how you spend your time. You decide what to do and what not to. You’re the captain of your ship. You make the rules
2. There are time benefits
This one relates to being in control of your freedom and independence, but it’s worth emphasising. Travel solo, and your time is your own.
That’s a huge gift when it comes to travel and life in general.
How often do we get to use our time in the way we choose to? It’s horribly rare these days to have complete charge of your time. Usually there’s a boss, a teacher, a parent or friend who, for better or worse, take away from the time available to you.
Suddenly, travelling solo, you can spend your time exactly as you please. Decisions are far simpler.
Being alone forces you to make decisions for yourself.
Again, this can seem like a mixed blessing at the beginning, but over time the benefits become clear.
Aside from growing your ability to think for yourself and enjoying the self-confidence that comes with that, it also speeds the process of decision making up – after all, there’s no-one else’s opinions or ideas to take into consideration.
In a group it is far harder to reach a unanimous decision that pleases everyone. Alone, this isn’t an issue.
3. It’s an opportunity to develop as a person
I think this is one of the biggest advantages of travelling solo.
There can be few better tools for self-development than being alone on the other side of the world, having an adventure.
Priorities change, personalities mature, minds open, self-confidence increases; ideals and opinions alter in progressive ways. You improve as a person.
Travel has the knack of doing this anyway, but going it alone puts things into overdrive.
There’s something about fending for yourself, being outside of your comfort zone and having no-one to figure things out for you that forces you to develop.
It’s exactly the challenges involved with solo travel that make it so powerful. Embrace the hardships involved and reap the rewards.
There are tonnes of new friendly faces.
Solo travel is a bit of a misnomer.
Simply, unless you choose to, it’s unlikely you’ll ever actually be entirely by yourself. Now, you may feel alone at times, but in reality there are almost always other people around.
Whether you’re in the hostel, on a guided tour, on a night out, on the beach or anywhere else, there’s ample opportunity to be with others.
This is awesome.
Everyone (whether solo or in a group) can feel lonely when they travel, and there’s nothing like travelling to allow you to meet new people and make new friends.
You feel lonely, so you reach out to someone, strike up a conversation and before you know it you have a new best friend. Some of my closest friends today are those that I met while solo travelling!
4. You have your own space
This one might sound obvious but by being alone, you’re able to get away from the noise and politics that can accompany being in a group of people.
Instead, you can be by yourself whenever you wish- free to escape whenever you need your own space, with no obligation to anyone else.
Remember, this is your trip and you make the rules.
5. You get to choose your accommodation
If you’re booking a multi-day group tour, you will likely have no say in where you stay.
This can sometimes be a great experience, as many group tours offer a homestay experience where you stay in with a local family, but it can also go the other way.
You might find that your staying in a run down hostel and have to share rooms with other guests on the tour.
There isn’t anything more awkward than sharing a private room with strangers. If you like the people you’re with it’s not a problem, but if you don’t get on…nightmare.
6. You don’t have to follow an itinerary
The more of you there are, the more opinions and desires to take into consideration. You may want to do ‘x’, but your friend wants to do ‘y’ and someone else ‘z’.
Travelling in a group is a definite exercise in negotiation and compromise. At a very basic level, you can’t all do everything you all want to do, all of the time.
This can be a hard pill to swallow when you have particular ideas in mind for ‘your trip’.
Thus, it can be helpful to start defining things as ‘our trip’ rather than ‘my trip’ and to know that even if it wasn’t your first choice, whatever you end up doing is likely to be amazing.
7. You may dislike someone in the group
In larger groups it’s almost inevitable there will be someone you don’t see eye to eye with at all times, which can make things awkward, uncomfortable and downright un-enjoyable.
At this point, if you’re lucky, there can be another decision to make: to stay or go.
Remember, if someone you’re travelling with is having a detrimental impact on your trip, you could always make the bold call to go your separate ways.
If at all possible, spend an extended period of time in your group before you actually go on the trip itself.
If you’re planning on travelling with a bunch of your mates, take a long weekend together somewhere closer to home first.
This will test the waters, expose any potential friction and clarify exactly whether this is the best group to go with on your travels.
For pre-planned, organised trips this can be harder (such as with a voluntary organisation).
However, you might be able to interact online beforehand to get an idea of the kinds of people you’ll be with and who you might want to spend your time with.
I cannot emphasise enough the importance of getting on with the people you’re travelling with. If there’s anything you can do to ensure you’re the best possible match before you go, it won’t be wasted time.
8. You have more privacy and opportunities to be alone
Group travel makes it far more difficult to get your own space and it can be intense being around so many people all the time.
I’d encourage anyone to cultivate time alone when they travel, especially if they’ve been travelling in a group.
By taking a break from each other’s company, it serves to protect the relationships in place, which can often feel stretched otherwise.
9. No complicated decision making
More people and more opinions equal more complicated decision making.
Make sure you make your opinion and voice heard, as all too often someone with a big personality can take charge of the situation and before you know it a decision has been made for you.
As important as it is to be a team player and make compromises, sometimes you need to stick to your guns and, if needs be, do your own things,
10. Avoid arguements
It’s inevitable that disagreements happen in group travel.
You’re tired, things get stressful, it’s an intense experience and you’re spending a lot of time in close proximity with each other. This is a perfect recipe for arguments to happen.
Again, taking breaks from each other’s company and getting some personal space can be hugely helpful when it comes to safeguarding from disagreement!
And, if they do happen, try to clear the air as quickly as possible.
There’s nothing worse than travelling in a group where the atmosphere feels tense and toxic.
Like I mentioned at the start, the decision to travel solo or in a group is ultimately a very personal one.
Knowing your preferences and the way you operate is a helpful starting point from which to make the final call.
And, as you can see, there’s no easy answer here.
Solo Travel vs Group Travel: The Benefits of Group Travel
Now you know why you should consider solo travel vs group travel, it’s time to think about why group travel might be better…
1. Solo travel can be lonely
So, it’s true that being alone has its plus points and that travel surrounds you with new friendly faces.
However, loneliness is always something a solo traveller has to contend with.
I’ll emphasise that being in a group doesn’t entirely protect you from feeling lonely at times, but it’s undoubtedly more of a challenge when you’re by yourself.
It doesn’t matter how many lovely people might be around you, travelling by yourself can feel incredibly isolating at times.
Firstly, don’t beat yourself up – alone on the other side of the world, it would be weirder if you weren’t feeling lonely. Remember how travelling solo can be great for forging friendships. See this as an incentive to reach out and meet new people.
If possible, take action.
Contact home, talk to friends and family- distract yourself with a book. Remind yourself why you decided to travel in the first place and of all the positive things you’re doing.
Know that you’ll get through this and that it will make you stronger as person.
Remember: growth through adversity. It’s exactly this sort of challenging situation that will turn your travels into such a positive experience in the long run.
Travel creates a sense of companionship & togetherness.
Experiencing travel with a group – whether that’s a group of people you’ve never met before or a bunch of friends you’ve known for years – is unquestionably special.
Going through anything characterised by extreme highs and lows fosters friendships that wouldn’t otherwise develop.
Travel is no exception.
Despite all the ups and downs, group travel binds and brings people together within the experience in amazing ways.
Furthermore, the loneliness that can be a hugely negative feature of a lone traveller’s experience can be less of an issue.
It is unlikely to disappear entirely, but having people there to pick you up when times are tough can be exceptionally helpful.
2. It’s Less Expensive
With no-one else to share costs with, travelling solo can become a more expensive endeavour.
Food, transport and accommodation can often be cheaper with group discounts. But of course, this isn’t an option for solo-ers.
If you’re on a budget, try to cultivate simple and cheap tastes in order to compensate for the added expenses of solo-ing.
Remember, you only have your own tastes and requirements to budget for, which can save you money compared to travelling with someone who enjoys a more luxurious lifestyle.
Embrace the simple and minimalistic lifestyle that travel provides you with. Treat it as a challenge: how cheaply can you do this?
There are the practical advantages of being in a group.
You can divide up luggage to share weight, support each other in tough times (e.g. accompanying someone to hospital), divvy up travel gear to save everyone taking more than one of the same item unnecessarily.
And so on and so forth.
Being in a group can be incredibly helpful for these sorts of reasons and open up opportunities that would be far harder for a solo traveller on a budget.
3. You’ have to cook for one
Where it’s usually a sociable affair, dinner time is one of those moments where loneliness and homesickness can rear its ugly head.
With no-one to share a meal with, cooking can feel a little pointless. It is tempting not to do it, eat something quick and unhealthier than a home cooked dish.
Having to pay for all the ingredients yourself, cooking for one can also increase costs.
Again, this is another great reason to get talking to someone wherever you’re staying. Use it as an excuse to cook someone a meal, get chatting, share recipes from your country of origin, split meal costs and make a new friend in the process.
4. You don’t have to selfies
This is more of a personal bug bear I have with solo travel – I just hate selfies and will avoid taking them where possible!
However, travelling alone often leaves you with no other option! When you’re by yourself and the situation calls for a photo, a selfie is sometimes the only way to go!
Again, as a more objective issue with this, an enforced selfie is another great way to highlight the fact that you’re by yourself, which can be an emotional challenge.
When everyone around you has friends and partners to take their picture, having to take a selfie can feel disheartening.
And yet, it’s also another great excuse to ask someone to take a photo of you, strike up another conversation with yet another stranger, and hopefully reduce those feelings of aloneness once more.
Again, a personal plus point for group travel!
There’s always someone there to take you photo and save you having to pose for a selfie.
At the end of your trip, there are others there to swap photos with, look back on the experience and reminisce about those awesome times you shared together.
Also, where it’s impossible to take photos of everything as a solo traveller, you can rely on others in the group to have footage or photos of that one special thing you might have missed.
5. You get to see destinations you can’t see on your own
Sometimes, guided tours are in place as a safety precaution. Destinations such as caves, ancient historic sites and important places of worship or royalty, can sometimes be off-limits to the general tourist.
This is usually not set up to inconvenience tourists, but to preserve the attraction or to ensure the safety of those who visit.
Which brings me onto my next point…
6. There’s safety in numbers
Safety is usually the ‘biggee’ for anyone concerned with solo travel. And I suppose there’s truth in the old adage that there is ‘safety in numbers’.
There are awful, awful cases of solo travellers who have the misfortune of being caught up in a tragedy; staying safe physically and mentally should be an absolute priority for any traveller.
However, think of the sheer number of people travelling alone each year compared to the minimal number of issues that occur.
If you’re sensible, follow the usual safety precautions (as you would at home), research regional challenges ahead of time and speak to locals to get to know the parts of town to avoid, you will be fine.
To settle any remaining nerves, just read up on the accounts of nearly every travel blogger on the web, all of whom will advocate the same thing: solo travel is far safer than some people try to make out.
In new and unknown parts of the world, being in a group of people can be lovely and reassuring.
There are others to highlight and protect you from potential dangers, as well as pooled resources that can serve the same function.
For the odd bad egg you’ll come across on your travels, a group of people will be far less of a target than a solo traveller.
If you are traveling alone, then you may find that sometimes a group tour is a safer option for solo travelers. Especially when doing things like hiking trips or visiting remote areas.
While some hikes are totally fine to do alone, there may be others that are more strenuous or in national parks with deadly wildlife around.
In those cases, you may prefer to do a group tour so that you have safety in numbers.
Likewise, if you’re a solo female traveler taking a solo trip to countries such as Egypt or Morocco which are known to have pushy men, this might make you feel more at ease being single travellers.
7. You might make new friends for LIFE
Contrary to what I said earlier, you might find that you’ve found your new best travel buddy on a group tour!
It’s really a gamble to know whether you like someone on the tour or not. Usually, there is at least one person you connect with. At the end of the day, you all have one thing in common – travel.
If you decide to do a group tour with a group travel company such as G Adventures or Intrepid Travel, then you can pretty much figure out who you might meet based on the set itinerary.
If you decide to do a group hiking tour in The Himalayas for example, there’s a high chance everyone on that tour is going to have an adventurous spirit and loves hiking (otherwise what are they doing there?).
You have a better chance to meet people on a group trip, which can combat loneliness and get you out of your comfort zone.
That sense of companionship and togetherness that arises from group travel serves to enhance relationships in amazing ways.
People you’ve known for a matter of days and weeks feel like life-long friends and often go on to become them in reality afterwards.
Likewise, friends who’ve known each other for years become even closer.
Travel binds people around particular memories, forges unspoken bonds from the rigours of the experience and elicits long lasting positivity between all who go through it together.
Sharing the experience creates something to reminisce about
Going through something so incredible with another person, or a group of people, only serves to enhance the experience through the memories created.
That sunset on the beach at the end of the day, the meteor shower at night in the mountains, getting lost in a random town somewhere, the cold beer next to the hostel swimming pool – they’re all made that bit more special when there’s someone there to share the experience with.
In years to come, long after the trip is over, there will be a handful of people you can call up to reminisce with about those special moments on your trip that you shared together.
Only the people who accompany you can ever fully understand and appreciate the magnitude and significance of what you experienced.
It’s incredibly difficult to articulate it to people who weren’t there and who have done nothing similar.
8. You get local tips
Most group travel tours are led by local guides, which means you can learn about local people from the locals themselves.
Sometimes they take you to meet their local friends, may teach you some of the local language.
9. You might get group discounts
I had mentioned earlier that it can be cheaper to travel alone, but this may not be true for everyone.
Those traveling as a family with kids, or in groups, may find they get a better deal on a tour as they offer group discount tickets.
This really comes down to the type of tour and whether you’re looking at day tours or multi-day tours.
10. Last minute deals
If you’re someone who travels on a whim, you may even find that the prices of a tour are vastly reduced if you book the day before it begins.
This is because sometimes a trip can’t go unless there is enough people, so to make up the numbers, a tour company may massively reduce the price if the tour leaves in a few days time.
I know someone who managed to get a tour to Antartica for half the price of the original tour because she booked it 48 hours before the tour departed.
It really depends on the tour and where it goes.
11. Eases you into solo travel
If you’ve always wanted to travel solo but you have some worries about being by yourself, a group tour is a great way to ease into traveling and getting to know a country before going off by yourself.
Likewise, if you’re on your gap year in Southeast Asia and you’re worried about not making travel buddies, then a small group tour might be a great way to meet new people who you can go on solo travel adventures with.
12. Avoid paying single supplements
If you’re a solo traveler but you don’t like staying in dorms in hostels, then you will want to get a private room.
Paying for a private room for yourself is more expensive, so you can avoid paying what we call “single supplements” by booking a group tour and sharing a room with someone else.
As I mentioned above, one of the disadvantages of group travel is that you might meet people you don’t get on with, so again, this is really a gamble. But it’s something to consider, especially if you’re solo female travelers and don’t enjoy sharing rooms with strangers.
Group Tour Companies
If you decide you’re the type of person who doesn’t like to travel alone or plan your trips, maybe a group tour is an option for you.
Check out these reputable companies:
- G Adventures – offers small-group adventure tours, safaris, and expeditions. You’ll experience authentic adventures in a responsible and sustainable manner.
- Intrepid Travel – another small group specialist who cater to a range of styles and budgets, so you pick the adventure that suits you best.
- Trafalgar Tours – 70 years experience as a tour operator offering tours worldwide for the 35 to 65 age demographic.
- Insight Vacations – specialists on Europe and USA for the 35 to 65 age demographic.
- Globus Tours – We’ve traveled with them to Northern California, Jordan, and Ireland, and soon to take a family river cruise in Europe with Avalon Waterways.
Final Thoughts on Solo Travel vs Group Travel
So there you have it, those are the benefits of solo travel and group travel, as you can see, it’s not so black and white as solo travel is better or group travel is.
It’s always a good idea to try different travel styles to see which is better for you. At the end of the day, solo travel vs group travel comes down to personal preferences.
There are pros and cons for both solo and group travel: for every pro there’s usually an equal and opposite con to even things up, and vice versa.
I actually find this reassuring: no right answer means there’s no wrong answer either, right?
So, whether you decide to travel alone or in a group you can rest assured that there will be both highs and lows.
Know yourself, consider the options, be flexible with your plans, open to compromise and change.
Then take that leap into the unknown.
There’s no way to know how things will turn out, without taking that first step.
Alone or in a group, go, travel, and have the time of your life!
Whichever type of travel you choose, I hope this guide helped you figure out which is the best way for you.