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Female solo travel tipsWhat countries are best for female solo travel and what are some safety tips?

Where should women travelling solo go to get their feet wet? And where will they feel safe and easily meet locals and hook up with other travelers?

We recently put those female solo travel questions to our Facebook fan page community. Once a week we poll our members on their travel tips, as we love getting insider tips from other travellers.

While most of my travel around the world has been done with Craig, my first adventures saw me setting off into the untamed wilderness on my own.

Here are some of my personal tips to help women travelling solo feel a little more comfortable…

Don’t think about the possible dangers

There are a million things that can go wrong, no matter how you are travelling. In fact, there are a million things that can go wrong in your life just by stepping out the front door.

But, that doesn’t stop you from getting on with your life right? Well don’t do the same when you are thinking of travelling solo.

Be Aware

Keep your wits about yourself and your surroundings at all time. Spend time looking around you and taking note of what you see. Be present in every moment. This will help alert you to any potential dangers.

Female solo travel tipsTrust your intuition

It always knows best. If something doesn’t feel right, then don’t do it. There is a reason why you get that unsettled feeling in your stomach when you meet that strange person on the beach.

Don’t freak yourself out by imaginary monsters, but definitely pay attention to those little messages our animal instincts give us.

Walk assertively and confidently

When I was in year 9 we had to do a self-defence course for sport at school. I don’t really remember how to flip someone over in a death roll if they were to attack me, but I do remember a very wise preventative piece of advice they drummed into us.

Always walk assertively and confidently. If you do this potential scam artists and attackers will leave you alone.

They only prey on those who are vulnerable. Walk with your head held high, and confidently greet people and look them in the eye. I have done this many times when I have felt afraid, and it instantly made me feel very strong and brave.

Let people know of your plans

This is especially important for solo women travellers. When you are travelling with someone else, you always have someone watching your back and looking out for you.

Let people you know and trust know where you are going and when. With today’s communication portals this can involve something as quick as an email, facebook message, twitter update or Skype call.

Talk to people

Don’t be afraid to talk to strangers, to make new friends and to travel with those new friends. I used to always go out on my own in Dublin, because I really wanted to meet new people. I also met plenty of new friends travelling through various countries. I made an effort to talk to strangers, and travel with them.  I was never afraid to do so.

Facebook fan tips…

A Chick with Baggage

For your first country abroad as a chick, I strongly suggest going somewhere the culture (and language) is similar to your own.

I don’t care how much you prepare, or how much you have traveled with others before, that first trip will be difficult and going somewhere you can figure your head out and not have to worry about a language barrier is key.

For me, it was England. I was cranky, confused, doubtful and scared as all hell, but at least I could order a sandwich without too much confusion.

Marina Lukyantseva-Haworth

My first solo experience was also my first studying abroad experience. I picked Munich – I visited it twice before and totally loved the city. It is still my #1 city in the world. London was also safe for me when I’ve been there on my own.

When I went travelling to South America

I travelled in South America as a solo female traveller and it was absolutely fine. I also met quite a few other solo female travellers who had done the same.

It doesn’t matter where you are in the world, if you keep your wits about you, make sensible decisions for your personal safety, and are lucky to not be in the wrong place at the wrong time, then you can travel wherever you like and be ok.

It is just a case of getting over those initial fears and just going for it.

ToursByLocals.com

This is a great question – My two cents are that I think it depends on what kind of a person you are more than anything else. Are you gutsy and adventurous, or more reserved and cautious?

Figure out your adventure-threshold, take a deep breath and go for it! And I definitely would recommend Australia for a carefree single woman traveler. I had such a blast there as a newly-single early 20-something.

Kaylin Stephens

Probably anywhere in western Europe. I went to the UK last fall solo and it’s so easy to get around with trains, subway/metro/bus/tram in nearly every city, etc.

Most of Europe is the same, although some places may be a little bit more hassle if you don’t speak the language. But places that cater to tourists always have people who speak English so it’s not a huge deal; just learn a few key phrases before you go.

There’s tons of young people travel to Europe every year so it’s especially good for younger solo women, very easy to meet people and make friends. Western Europe in general has really low crime rates (have to watch out for pickpockets in some places, but that’s what a money belt is for!)

A really good way to meet people is to go on a backpacker’s tour, which is designed for younger, independent travelers. I did a MacBackpackers tour of Scotland during my trip and met some really awesome people I still keep in touch with.

Christine Rojek

My first time travelling alone was in Thailand one month and after Thailand one month in Vietnam. Made a lot of experiences about safety.

- When i walked around alone i weared long trousers and a t-shirt.
- I never lose sight of my baggage especially on the beach.
- When i left my bags in my hotel room I locked it with little locks.
- I weared my shoulder bag always in front of me and not on my back.

So I would say Thailand is very good for solo female traveller. You learn a lot about yourself, its very important to trust yourself and your instinct! Thats a nice experience and makes you stronger!

Legal Nomads

I think Thailand, Burma, Laos and the Philippines are each ideal places to start travelling alone as a woman.

While cautious about certain things (dressing appropriately, not drinking much and of course never leaving a drink unattended), they are receptive countries where people treat you with respect. And places where a big smile goes a long way.

For safety tips, I’d say…

(1) doorstop from a hardware store – cheap, lightweight way to wedge your door shut at night if you have a solo room and

(2) a safety whistle, which has gotten me out of trouble (monkeys chasing me up a hill, getting stuck in a night train’s bathroom, etc) many a time.

Vicki Edmunds

I went solo to Cambodia, Vietnam and Thailand. I hired a guide in Cambodia, that was about the only person I talked to there, but I thoroughly enjoyed Cambodia and didn’t feel threatened.

Vietnam was a different kettle of fish. I was diddled out of at least £100 and ended up in an hotel full of German people who were very suspicious of a solo woman traveller.

Thailand was great but again there are not a lot of people around willing to strike up a conversation with a solo woman over 50 in case they are landed with her for the holiday!

Since setting up eatwithalocal and finding other hospitality sites such as Servas, hosptiality club, couch surfing I have transformed my holiday experience.

Annie Bettis

My first solo experience was my study abroad in Sydney. It was perfect, it helped a lot that I already spoke the language as some people said above.

I always recommend a zipped shoulder bag for traveling and to more or less just be aware of your surroundings. When you are walking at night look up at the faces of people that pass you and if you see someone around you look at them so they know you are alert.

Kelly Dunning

New Zealand is probably one of the friendliest and easiest countries for a first time backpacker! It’s really easy to get around, there are loads of great hostels, and the people are sooo friendly!

Elizabeth Hughes

Its such a relief to know that London is a great place to start as a solo female traveller.

The one piece of advice I have is ONLY listen to those who have been to the places your going. Because they truly know what its like.

Ive had so many people say to me “you have to be so careful there they’ll steal your bags and try to rape you” and i ask them “oh when you were you in London?” and then have never been and yet those who have been say its great …

When I went travelling to South America

I found that the time you are most vulnerable is whenever you are first arriving somewhere. Not just in the country, but in a new town/city.

You have usually just stepped off a plane/train/bus and are tired, have a big heavy backpack or suitcase and are unsure of where you are going. So my tip for a solo female travelelr is to always plan for your arrivals.

Book a hostel/hotel in advance just for that first night if you can so you have somewhere to head to. This will make you walk around with confidence and purpose, which makes you look less of a target.

It also means that you can spend your time figuring out the important stuff like getting there, rather than where to get to. And it saves you from getting involved with dodgy touts.

In notoriously dangerous cities or countries, pre-arrange a transfer or ask your hostel in advance for some local advice about getting a taxi. Not all taxis are safe.

Or get chatting to other backpackers on your train/bus/plane and see if you can share a taxi with them!

Travel with Papino

My first solo trip was also Europe… I didn’t find any problems! Have your wits about you, don’t be naive, but also don’t be paranoid. I found the most paranoid travellers ALWAYS had something go wrong!

What about you? Are you solo? Can you add to this list? Please leace a comment below…

ABOUT THE AUTHOR - Caz Makepeace is the co-founder of y Travel Blog and has been traveling and living around the world since 1997, first solo, then with her husband, and now with her two daughters. Caz believes travel taught her how to live an empowered life and she shares 20 of the lessons she learned through travel in her free ebook.

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Comments

  1. Great article. I just did a months solo tour in Turkey and every day, hubby was insistent that I call him and give him hotel addresses etc. It was actually nice to know that he had my back even though he was not with me.

    Christine mentioned clothing and I think that is a big factor as well.

    I had one bad incident at the beginning of the tour which shook me up really bad however I focused on the fact that 99% of the people that I met in life are honest, decent and just want to help others and make new friends.While there is a small chance of bad things happening, I agree with you that paranoid people will cause more problems for themselves

    • Craig can get a bit like that with myself if I travel on my own, like I’ve never travelled before :)
      you have to focus on the large chance that nothing will happen and you’ll have the time of your life

  2. Its great that the girls are becoming more and more independent and now they can travel wherever they want to.

  3. I’ve always travelled with friends but was keen to try Japan on my own for just a week. It was fabulous. I squeezed about a months worth of travel into 1 week but I just could not get over how helpful and friendly the people were. I was always guided in the direction even without understanding a word I was saying lol. I felt completely safe the whole time. My tips for fast and safe solo travelling in Japan would be…

    Always source the tourist info centre first (where they have english speakers) and get all the info you desire and go from there. Remember where it is, incase you need to go back.

    Make sure you have nutritious snacks on hand at all times, noone else can grab you a quick sugar fix to keep you moving.

    Make yourself familiar with the transportation system, study the maps as much as you can before you go.

    My friends couldn’t believe I was going on my own but I was really looking forward to the challenge without speaking the language. I managed to fly into to Tokyo and get to Kyoto and Hiroshima by bullet train in a week. I also didn’t drink very much as as I have a bit of a habit of time wasting with hangovers hehe If I kept thinking like my friends, I would never get to go anywhere. Why should I miss out just because I don’t have a partner in crime? If by chance something bad did happen, at least I was going down having the time of my life. Not sitting at home wondering :)

  4. I had always traveled with my ex, and after we broke up, I still wanted to travel. I just completed my first solo 7 month backpack trip through South East Asia – and it was AMAZING. I found hostels to be the safest and best place to meet people, and I met so many awesome, inspiring, other solo female travelers at hostels. We were all having unbelievable experiences and it was so inspiring to chat and form friendships. My strongest advise – Just do it. Get out there. Don’t be afraid to travel alone. You will meet people, you will grow so much, and your life will be transformed.

    • Awesome Julie!! Thanks so much for sharing your positive experience- it is so valuable to those women who are a little nervous to travel on their own. It can be done safely and with lots of fun!

  5. I love traveling solo though it definitely takes a little extra planning – for example, when you’re alone, losing your ATM card, money, credit cards, etc can be a bigger concern because you don’t have anyone to spot you. I suggest never keeping your cards in the same place – for example, keep an ATM card in your day bag, but keep an extra credit card in a hidden pocket in your luggage. You also want to make sure you make photocopies of the front and back of all of your important documents and cards and keep copies in a couple of different hidden places – make sure you leave a copy with people back home – if you have your stuff stolen, then call home and have your friends give you the numbers to cancel your cards. I recently travelled solo to Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, and Laos. The hardest place to be alone was Vietnam, but mainly b/c I wasn’t sure when I was getting ripped off and I was willing to pay *extra* money to stay in hotels that felt safer – My trip was 6 weeks total and I found it fun to balance having a few days doing random things followed by a couple of days with planned excursions – for example, I did a 3 day scuba diving trip and also a 3 day gibbon experience – those things give you a nice break from having to be vigilant every minute and are great ways to make friends and travelling buddies as well as to meet other solo travellers

    • I also started using those “pay as you go” debit / credit cards where you can refill them as you travel (here in the US Greendot is one). Not only gives you spare money in case something goes wrong, but I’ve found it’s also good to use on a day to day basis because it’s not your primary acct if the number gets stolen!!! Limited money and limited damages they can cause.

  6. Wow, great tips for solo female travelers! I agree with each and every one of them…Being aware of the moment is a great one because listening to yourself and environment is key! Walk with confidence and don’t look like a weakling – you’re right, you are less prone to getting scammed that way :) Essentially, use your street smarts! ;0 Great post loved every word of it!

    Cathy Trails

  7. Hi Caz,

    Great article!

    I think there are a lot of potential obstacles for anyone travelling solo. While you may want to be solo for the majority of your trip, why not try some of the social networks to meet people when travelling? I’m obviously going to recommend my network here, http://www.mysocialpassport.com, but there are other great ones two, CouchSurfing, TravBuddy, and so on.

    On these site you can meet others travelling and other habitants of cities. Why get a guide when you can meet someone local?

    Basically by joining MySocialPassport or other travel social networks it gives you a few more options. I know I always prefer to eat and drink with company, and these sites can be great for that

  8. My first solo trip was in Europe and then I went again. Finally I’d the courage to see South America. Coming from Asia, it definitely takes a lot of courage to do all these on my own as girls here don’t dare to venture out all alone.

    I must say girl traveler has all the help she needs and am lucky to have met many nice people in both continents.

  9. @ Vickie – I did a private tour guide in Thailand and Vietnam with my fiance this past year and we had an amazing experience. I think it’s a great way to go and a great way to get to know a new city in a foreign country. Obviously maybe our experiences might have been a little different than a woman going solo, but nonetheless a worthwhile effort and congrats for doing so.

  10. All great tips. Always have to be cautious when traveling anywhere.

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